When it comes to figuring out if kids might have development issues, parents can be really important. It’s a bit like being a detective, looking for clues in how their child grows. Here’s what I’ve learned:

Know the Milestones

Get to know the main milestones for different age groups. Here are some key ones to keep an eye on:

• 0-3 months: Your baby should respond to sounds and make cooing noises.
• 6 months: They should be able to sit up without help and recognize familiar faces.
• 12 months: They might start saying simple words like "mama" or "dada."
• 2 years: They can follow simple instructions and begin to put words together.
• 3 years: They should be able to interact with others in simple ways and say their own name.

Watch for Red Flags

If your child isn’t reaching some of these milestones, it’s a good idea to take note and talk to a doctor. Some red flags to look out for are:

• Not making eye contact or not responding when you call their name.
• Having trouble with movements, like rolling over or crawling.
• Not talking enough for their age group.

Trust Your Instincts

Always trust your feelings! Parents usually know their kids better than anyone else. If something doesn’t seem right, it’s okay to ask for help. Getting help early can really make a big difference.

Use Resources

There are lots of helpful resources online. Websites like the CDC have milestone checklists that can be useful. Also, local parenting groups are great for sharing experiences and getting advice.

Communicate Openly

Finally, keep talking openly with your child’s teachers and caregivers. They can give you more information about how your child is doing, especially when it comes to social situations.